DO WE REALLY NEED TO BECOME ILL IN ORDER TO GAIN THE MANY BENEFITS ILLNESS WILL BRING US?

In health we have a set of values so overwhelmingly strong that even, subconsciously, we will sabotage anything that gets in the way of them. And yet, when we are ill, those values become the subject of ridicule, we engage in immediate and significant re-negotiation with ourselves. It seems that we only value wealth over [...]

Is somebody distracting your focus? What to Do…

You can please others and piss yourself off, or please yourself and piss others off, but you’ll become totally messed up trying to do both. When you infatuated with others and put them on pedestals you tend to minimise yourself and desire to change yourself relative to them. You tend to inject their values into [...]