Prevention is 1/10th the cost of Cure… So coaching must, to be effective, support and challenge you to prevent what you don’t want. In other words you’ll like it and dislike it.

Motivating yourself to do stuff can be a total bummer and nobody knows it better than me. I'm totally motivated to do my high priority tasks and love it, like writing blogs, doing podcasts, coaching clients and kissing my partner. But there are a few things, like swimming in cold sharky water that really get [...]

Being a positive enabler, ask why this person cannot proceed without you. If the answer is material, lend a hand. If it’s emotional, be careful.

To help somebody to do something they could not do without you. It can be good and bad. To allow a friend to drink themselves to death is enabler. To help someone do something they dream about is an enabler. To help a friend out of trouble is an enabler. So you see one must [...]

Avoid the Heartless Path: It leads Nowhere Good.

If one spent their whole life doing nothing other than opening their heart and developing the qualities of the heart, it is no exaggeration to say that this effort alone would bring them to the highest goal of human life. Because it is through the heart that one finds their truth, overcomes self-doubt and within [...]

Evolutionary Leadership Training/Coaching

For many years I have consulted with people who are keen to work as effectively as possible. The most successful "Evolutionaries" I have coached are moved by an expansive vision. They are fascinated by life and driven to experience it fully. They respond well to change although they do not necessarily like it. They think [...]

Personal and Business Coaching

WHAT YOU LEARN Session 1. Your True Nature The Universal Laws of NatureChoosing your Mood - Organising your workBody, Mind and Emotion and how they co-operate or not…Looking after yourself – Which self was that?Good management for self and othersDealing with your stress so you don’t bring it home. Session 2. Learning from life. How [...]

Red Flags – Beware of Substitutes in your Life – They Hurt

The Four Substitutes. There is a great academic paper written about wearing cheap imitation watches. In summary it suggests that the individual who does it is doing more harm to themselves than good. Fake is fake. And it permeates all aspects of life. But there's no academic paper necessary when it comes to substitutes in [...]