There is a wicked gap between what we expect to happen and what actually happens. Our imagination can dream up anything at once and we can live in the anticipation of a fantasy becoming reality. That is soul destroying because we place a lot of emphasis on our imagination and therefore our visualisation of the future and yet the future can sometimes contradict what we expected to happen. This is most conspicuous in marriages and in business proposals in fresh start-ups.
Find out which of these is incorrect is quite a task. Is it our imagination or is it our interpretation of reality. If we imagine a fantasy that contradicts the universal laws of nature we are setting ourselves up for failure. But equally so if we are imagining a reality in the future but our perception of what's taking place in the present is wrong then Will also become quite disenchanted and we will lose balance. This video explains a little bit about that.