Who we are when we are single is different to who we are in a relationship. Why is this important? Because sometimes the person we become is a person we don’t like being. Nature’s Universal law of balance means that two people will always become bookends to each other, and a single person will integrate both qualities into themselves. Here’s an example: P gets into a relationship with M. M is an emotionally vulnerable, generous and outgoing person. So was P but when we get into relationship we always go to polarity with our partner on their behaviour. The more extreme M is, emotionally, the more extreme P becomes in the opposite direction. P would become intellectual, critical (the opposite to generous) and rather self contained. P is in love with M but this new P doesn’t like himself as much as he liked his single self. Immediately, P tries to “fix” M, really, nature’s way of bringing both back to centre. Eventually because P is continually complaining to M they split up. The irony is that everything P disliked in M, he soon becomes in himself. Then, P meets someone completely new B, and, if P hasn’t learned to embrace the M in himself, B soon starts to become M. The great insight is that the more P tried to change “fix” M, the more polarised she became, and the more P went to the opposite. The whole topic is centred around basing who we are and who we love on our character, identity. It’s not really love. more it’s seeking love but going about it the completely wrong way. Nearly 100% of all relationships are based on this delusion.

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About the Author Chris Walker

Uniquely Australian, highly intuitive and inspired, Chris Walker is on the forefront of radical personal development and change that inspires people to find purpose and to live in harmony with the Laws of Nature. His methods are dynamic, and direct. His work is gifted, heart-opening and inspirational. The process Chris embraces can be confrontational, but if you are prepared to “step out” the personal power that this knowledge gives you is without doubt life changing and truly inspiring. Chris’s purpose is to open hearts and to stop the hurt. His work comes from his heart and is a truly magnificent gift for anyone ready to receive it. Chris shows people how to bring spirit into their life and keep it there. His sensitivity and empathy to others is his gift. The most powerful thing that we can do with our lives is to be on purpose, and live with the knowledge of spirit. Chris helps you discover this, that which is already yours, and through his work, you will find the courage and love to honour your-self and follow your heart. Chris brings his work to individuals and businesses. He believes for business success, you first need to create personal success, and this happens when your business and the people within it are on purpose. Chris Walker is an author, a speaker and a truly inspirational individual who has been fortunate enough in this life to find and live his truth.
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